Áslaug is in a stormy relationship and is constantly setting new boundaries for her spouse’s preferable behavior but senses the boundaries repeatedly moving. After she became pregnant the situation has only become worse.

Áslaug knows well that she is no angel herself and often does something that she knows will make him angry. Áslaug has also often yelled herself and pushed him to get out of violent situations. He has never hit her but sometimes holds her stuck and throws things.

Is this abuse?