Ingvar is thirteen years old and plays basketball. His new coach is energetic and youthful even though he’s over thirty. The coach sometimes invites the boys to his house after practice to watch basketball movies. One time Ingvar goes alone and the coach compliments him and admits that Ingvar is his favourite.

After that, they start meeting alone and become good friends without anyone else knowing. The coach gives him clothes and alcohol and often massages him after practice. One time they watch porn together and it ends in sexual intercourse. Ingvar finds all of this exciting but something about it still bothers him. He has no one to talk to because he’s lost touch with friends and family.

Is this abuse?