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Sextortion

Sextortation is blackmail using sexual content. When someone wants you do to something and threatens to expose your or show others things you don’t want people to see, then they are using sextortation against you.

Blackmailing people into doing things like sending you nude photos or money is illegal.

Distributing nude photos of people who have not given permission is also illegal and is called digital sexual violence.

If you or someone you know is communicating with someone who is threatening you, we recommend that:

  • Save your communications and any information you can think of (such as their friends list and username).
  • Stop the communication.
  • Get support from professionals. People who experience sextortation or romance scams can experience great distress, humiliation, shame and worry.
  • Contact the police. The police have an international collaboration, which means that even if the person you are communicating with is abroad or hiding behind an unknown username, they can still find out who they are.
  • If the person in question is in possession of nude photos or other imagery that you do not want to be distributed, the distribution can be restricted or stopped.

Resources

Stígamót

Stígamót helps people of all genders who have been sexually abused.

An interview room at Bjarkarhlíð

Bjarkarhlíð

Bjarkarhlíð is a center for people who have experienced abuse. There you get all the support and counseling you need in one place. All assistance is on your terms.

Police

The police in Iceland help people who have suffered abuse of any kind. Police see abuse in close relationships as a very serious matter.

An interview room at Bjarmahlíð.

Bjarmahlíð in Akureyri

Bjarmahlíð is a center for people who have experienced abuse. There you get all the support and counseling you need in one place. All assistance is on your terms.

Myndin sýnir bjarta setustofu þar sem er blár sófi hægra megin upp við vegg.  Sófinn er með tveimur gulum púðum fyrir framan lágt viðar sófaborð. Hinu megin við borðið eru tveir hvítir stólar, yfir annan þeirra hefur verið lagt samanbrotið teppi.  Fyrir aftan stólana má sjá bókahillu með ýmsum munum í. Á veggnum gagnstætt hurðinni er hægra megin gluggi með bláum gluggatjöldum. Vinstra megin eru hvítir upphengdir eldhússkápar.

Suðurhlíð

Suðurhlíð is a center for victims of violence. The aim is to provide support, advice and education about the nature and consequences of violence.

Sigurhæðir in Selfoss

Sigurhæðir is a service for victims of gender-based violence in South Iceland. There you receive counsel, support and therapy on your terms, free of charge..

Grooming

When an older person seduces another person into sexual acts through deception or gifts, it is called grooming.

Romance scams

Romance scams is when someone forms a love or friendship relationship with you in order to steal money or personal information from you.

Digital sexual violence

Consent is always required to share sexual content of others