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Domestic Abuse

Domestic abuse is when the person abusing you is a relative or is closely connected to you. It can be your spouse, a family member, or caregiver. Abuse can occur regardless of gender, age, sexual orientation, ethnicity, or any other reason. When the abuser is your current or former partner, it is called abuse in close relationships.

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Abuse is a form of violence when someone intentionally harms you, does or says things frequently to make you upset. In Iceland, abuse is prohibited.

In Iceland, men and women are equals, also within marriage. It is prohibited to inflict physical or mental violence on one’s spouse or children.

Get help

It's always best to tell someone how you feel. Here in information about various support you can get in Iceland if you need help, whether it is for yourself or someone you know.

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1717

The Red Cross Helpline 1717 is a phone service and webchat for those who need someone to talk to in confidentiality. They are open 24 hours, and it's free to call.

An interview room at Bjarkarhlíð

Bjarkarhlíð

Bjarkarhlíð is a center for people who have experienced abuse. There you get all the support and counseling you need in one place. All assistance is on your terms.

An interview room at Bjarmahlíð.

Bjarmahlíð in Akureyri

Bjarmahlíð is a center for people who have experienced abuse. There you get all the support and counseling you need in one place. All assistance is on your terms.

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Suðurhlíð

Suðurhlíð is a center for victims of violence. The aim is to provide support, advice and education about the nature and consequences of violence.

Sigurhæðir in Selfoss

Sigurhæðir is a service for victims of gender-based violence in South Iceland. There you receive counsel, support and therapy on your terms, free of charge..

Types of domestic abuse

Domestic abuse with children

Domestic abuse can happen in all kinds of families.

Domestic abuse with teenagers

If someone related to you or close to you inflicts abuse on you, that is called domestic abuse or intimate partner violence.

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Emotional abuse

It is emotional abuse when someone threatens you or deliberately tries to scare, humiliate, isolate or ignore you. It's also sometimes called psychological abuse.

Chemical control

Spiking does not only happen among strangers. A partner, ex-partner, caregiver or another trusted person can also do spiking. This is a form of domestic abuse called chemical control.

Physical abuse

Physical abuse and violence are when someone hurts you physically, like with pinching, shoving, kicking, or punching. Threats of physical abuse are also physical violence.

Sexual abuse

Sexual abuse is when someone touches you sexually or in a not appropriately way, or forces you to perform a sexual act against your will. Sexual harassment with words or action is also abuse.

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Financial Abuse

Financial abuse is when someone cheats you of your money, steals from you, or denies you access to your money.

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Digital abuse

Digital abuse is when someone uses technology or technological devices to monitor, harass, threaten, or humiliate you.

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Neglect against adults

Neglect is when someone does not tend to the wants of a person who needs help, like a child, a person with a disability or an elderly person.

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Stalkers

If someone repeatedly harasses, follows or threatens you or monitors you, they are a stalker and their behaviour is called stalking.

Religious abuse

When someone uses a spiritual practice or religion to frighten you, hurt you or control you, it is called religious abuse.

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Honour-based abuse

Honour-based abuse is when someone, usually a close relative, inflicts abuse on you to protect the honour of the family. When honour is set above your human rights, that is abuse.

Female Genital Mutilation

Female genital mutilation is abuse and illegal in Iceland.

You can contact emergency services if you suspect that you or somebody you know is being abused.