After the verdict

When the verdict is given, all sorts of feelings can come up.

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Not guilty verdict

If the abusive person is found not guilty, it means they are not convicted. The reason for this isn't that the judge doesn't believe you. It just means there wasn't enough proof beyond all doubt that the abusive act happened.

Guilty verdict

If the abusive person is found guilty, they are convicted. The judge decides how long the person should serve in prison. The length of time and prison type can depend on different things, like age, if they've committed crimes before, and how likely it is they might use abuse again.

Serving time

  • The length of time someone serves for domestic abuse is various and depends on how serious the abusive act was.
  • Most people don't serve their full sentence.
  • A person who has been found guilty can be free until their time in prison starts if they haven't been held in custody. It can take some time until they get a spot in prison.

Levels of serving time

Desirable service goes through five stages. The first stage is closed prison, Hólmsheiði and Litla-Hraun. The second stage is an open prison, Kvíabryggja and Sogn. The third stage is a halfway house, Vernd. The fourth stage is an ankle tag. The fifth stage is parole. After that the service is done.

When someone is sentenced to prison, it doesn't always mean they'll be locked up the whole time. If a prisoner behaves well and takes part in therapies, they might be allowed to serve their sentence with fewer security rules.

As their time in prison goes on, they might get day leave from prison, be allowed to be in an open prison, go to a halfway house, or get an ankle bracelet for electronic monitoring.

If they break the rules in the place they are in, they can be sent back to a locked prison.

Why these levels?

The punishment for a crime is the verdict itself. Serving time is supposed to help people change so they don't commit abusive acts again. This means helping people return to the community as better individuals. But it's very hard to help people change in a locked prison.

Where is the guilty person?

Your parent (or guardians) can contact the Prison and probation administration to get information about where the person who was convicted is in their sentence.

For some people, it's good to know where the abusive person is in their sentence and if there's a chance of running into them out in the community. If the abusive person has admitted what they did and wants to change, maybe the family or someone from the family might want to visit them in prison. Other people who experienced the abuse don't want to know anything about this, and that's totally okay too.

Your safety

If the abusive person was found not guilty or they were found guilty and are now out of prison, and they are bothering you or threatening abuse, you can ask the police to put a restraining order on them. Read more about safety measures.

What happens now?

Even though your case is finished in the legal system, you will most likely need to deal with the effects of what happened for some time. Child protection services will make sure you get the right trauma therapy. It doesn't matter where you live in the country, everyone gets the same help.

Support for teenagers

Bergið Headspace

Bergið headspace

Bergið is a support- and counselling centre for young people up to 25 years old.

The Sick Love Chat

The Sick love chat is an anonymous chat for young people who seek advice about their relationships, communication or violence.